“Well being emerges when we create connections in our lives – when we learn to use mindsight to help the brain achieve and maintain integration, a process by which separate elements are linked together into a working whole.”

Daniel J. Siegel, Mindsight: The New Science of Personal Transformation.

“Je kan een mens niets leren; je kan hem alleen helpen het zelf te ontdekken in zichzelf.”

Galileo Galilei

About us

Messing & Groef (Dutch for a tongue and groove or tongue and rabbet connection) was founded in 2011 by Bianca Stokman. Bianca is a trained organizational …

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There is a variety op options for a coaching program. In some situations, a series of 1,5 hr conversations is suitable, at other times a day or half day program is much preferred.

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The training programs provided by Messing & Groef share a common focus: regulating yourself and your behavior in relation to the results you want to achieve.

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